在葬礼上要悲痛欲绝，在婚礼上要充满感动和希望，对待家人要热情洋溢，度假时要无忧无虑，但现实中，我们的感受不完全和外物刺激同步。为了生存，我们学会了隐藏，我们学会不去感受或流露出下意识产生的情绪。我们遵从内心的节奏，春去秋来而不受外界时空的干扰。Lif ...

Oh, I was roped into organising this birthday party. It's taken three full weekends. I think it's time to hear from our BBC Learning English colleagues. Examples I can't come to drinks tonight.